Do not COMPARE!

You need to realize that each person you date has strengths and weaknesses and therefore refrain from comparing your current partner to your exes – especially unfavorably. Just because an ex was unfaithful does not mean that another partner will be so too. A good partner puts the past in perspective and doesn’t constantly bring up reminders from the past that serve no valuable purpose in the present. Such as something their partner did months or years earlier. Move on!