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Thursday 21 May 2015

Never lose yourself in a relationship

You don’t exactly start dating your significant other with the intention that you’ll lose yourself in the midst of your relationship  and yet, five months later, you look back and wonder just where your sense of self ventured of to.

We all have our passions, friends, families to name but a few. These are some of the things we enter into a relationship with and will stay forever. Do not deprieve yourself from the things you used to do before you got into a relationship with your family, friends and your career. The tip is committed or not you still need your boys, girls, your brothers, sisters, cousins. Those moments we spent with our folk remind us of the Me before the relationship, that its still alive and well. 
 
If your partner is that insecure about you hanging out with your friends, family and still pursuing your goals lets talk about the bigger picture here: Why are you still with him/her? You and your buddies were friends before you started a relationship so why on earth would things change now that you are in one? However lets be careful of some friends who might want to distract our relationships, family members and careers but in the process see that you still are in check with what you wanted ultimately before you got into the relationship as an individual. 

lastly me time is important. There is always need for time alone. some of us are a closet introvert hiding in an extrovert's body, so that quiet, alone time i set aside for myself is literally the difference between life and death.   

 


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