self identification

Im glad to be publishing my very first post. I will be solely looking at various ways in which we can enhance ourselves to become a GOOD PARTNER.

Relationships are at the core of our lives. Relating and engaging with others can result in a mixed bag of emotions, such as excitement, fear, anticipation, elation, struggle, closeness, dread, intimacy and loneliness. In a positive relationship, both partners feel valued, loved and nurtured.

 First and fore most, before you love someone make sure that you are in love with yourself. You can never be in love with yourself if you do not know WHO YOU ARE. This will be our starting point of identifying SELF.

Self identification is the act of identifying yourself as a particular kind of person. Self is a person's essential being that distinguishes them from others, especially  considered as the object of introspection or reflexive action. Self includes your ego, persona, psyche, soul, spirit, mind, character, identity.

Once you are able to know SELF's weaknesses and strengths and you are able to embrace them then it means you have fallen in love with yourself and makes it easier for you to embrace the next person's weaknesses and strengths and be able to have an intense feeling or deep affection for them.

Here are some questions that can help you to know who you are:
1. What are my core personal values?
2. What makes me genuinely happy?
3. What or who would you be if you knew you could'nt fail?
4. What are my strengths and weaknesses?
5. What are my likes and dislikes?